As the Harvey Weinstein story continues to ripple outwards, the articles about the souring of our culture, particularly the souring of male-female relations, have flooded my newsfeed. (If you haven’t been following the story, don’t bother: All you need to know is that a man in Hollywood took advantage of a number of aspiring actresses in the most abhorrent way.)
One effect of this scandal has been the appearance of #metoo across social media. A number of my friends and acquaintances (mostly women, but some men as well) have put up the hashtag, many admitting publicly for the first time that they have dealt with some form of harassment or worse.
As I scrolled Facebook the day the hashtag peaked, I wondered whether it applied to me. Two cases quickly came to mind, later a third … a fourth … a fifth … But all of them were so minor: guys, or even boys saying rude things that I didn’t for a moment take seriously. And it seemed to me that it would be presumptuous, unhelpful, and ultimatelyuntrueto type #metoo for a merely sassy remark when so many people have suffered truly serious injuries.
Of course, some would insist that these days even snark and sass need to be called out. And it is true that language can be abusive, a sort of gateway drug to violence in a culture desperate for healing. But then again, “pretty and smart” hardly rises to the level of abuse, any more than (in Shakespeare’s inMuch Ado About Nothing) Benedick’s sneering at “My Lady Disdain” is cause for Beatrice to demand a duel. There is a difference between harmless dumb jokes or rapier-like wit—and harassment.
Well. That escalated … if not quickly, at any rate to a higher altitude than expected. Apparently, at least over here at the Register, the topic of children’s liturgies is even hotter thanGame of Thrones(pun obviously intended). I don’t know whether to lament this as an instance of one of those regrettable skirmishes in the endless wars over religious nonessentials, or to take it as a net positive that people are more eager to defend their children’s souls than to defend their entertainment choices. (Why not both?)
A few comments indicated points itching for clarification. First, I confess that I have never attended or taught at a children’s liturgy—I’ve only watched the kids march out. This does indeed preclude my critiquing children’s liturgies per se (although many of my readers, being more experienced, felt no such qualms). But my point wasnotthat children’s liturgies arebad(see disclaimers in the previous post) but rather that there are (at least for my family)betteroptions.
Second, and more importantly, one commenter (“Sharon”) had this question:
Can I ask, though, in what way is Mass itself a sacrament? I know we refer to the Blessed Sacrament, that comes to us at the Mass, but we don’t refer to the Holy Sacrament of the Mass. I think I’m missing something, and I don’t like missing anything about what the Mass is!
Actually, I doubt Sharon is missing anything. She was reacting to my statement that “The Mass is a sacrament—yes, even for those too young to receive Communion—and there’s an advantage to a young soul in being there, beginning to end, even if it isn’t always perfectly comprehensible to a young mind.” That is, I think, substantially right; but Sharon is also right that we don’t speak of “the Holy Sacrament of the Mass.”
Today we got some fresh farmer’s market fruits and
vegetables from a neighbor.And today, researching
how to use three enormous and very green oranges, I finally understood what had
long been one of my favorite neglected Shakespearean lines.
It’s one of those difficult lines for actresses,
thanks to pronunciation changes from Shakespeare’s day.Any playgoer who consults his footnote will
understand its meaning, but conveying the sense to a nube in the seats is
nearly impossible.It’s one of those
fruity Shakespearean jokes that are, alas, ripe for the cutting.
In Much Ado
About Nothing, poor Claudio has been informed that his Duke has stolen his
girl Hero.In fact, the Duke has
interceded on Claudio’s behalf, and persuaded Hero to agree to marrying the
handsome young soldier.When Claudio’s
friends go to collect him so that the Duke can break the good news, Claudio is,
understandably, in a sour temper.He
puts on a show of indifference—after all, he can’t very well take a stand
against his duke—but underneath he’s seething.Hero’s cousin Beatrice explains Claudio’s ambiguous humor to the puzzled
Duke in the following words:
The count
is neither sad, nor sick, nor merry, nor
well; but
civil count, civil as an orange, and
something
of that jealous complexion.
The basic joke, as I mentioned, is explained in the
footnote of any solid edition.Beatrice
is punning on the word “Seville,” which evidently in Shakespeare’s time must
have sounded much closer to “civil” than it now does.“Civil as an orange” would have been grasped
by an audience as “Seville, like an orange,” the city in Spain being, presumably,
known for oranges then as it is now.(Incidentally, this is an interesting illustration of how changing vowel
sounds are rarely so much of an issue as changing accents.If, for example, we now pronounced “Seville” “SEE-vul,”
the pun would still be easily rendered in speech.The fact that we say “civil” “SIH-vul” and “Seville”
“suh-VILL” is much more problematic.)
So much for the footnote.Claudio is of the same jealous complexion as
a Seville orange.Recalling that
jealousy is supposed to be green-eyed (itself a Shakespearean coinage—see Iago’s
lines to Othello), one naturally supposes that Seville oranges must have
arrived in England green, perhaps plucked green from trees by Spanish matadors
in the off-season, and shipped to England unripe in order to survive the
arduous voyage that even an Armada could not withstand.Some tough fruit, that.
Well. That escalated … if not quickly, at any rate to a higher altitude than expected. Apparently, at least over here at the Register, the topic of children’s liturgies is even hotter thanGame of Thrones(pun obviously intended). I don’t know whether to lament this as an instance of one of those regrettable skirmishes in the endless wars over religious nonessentials, or to take it as a net positive that people are more eager to defend their children’s souls than to defend their entertainment choices. (Why not both?)
A few comments indicated points itching for clarification. First, I confess that I have never attended or taught at a children’s liturgy—I’ve only watched the kids march out. This does indeed preclude my critiquing children’s liturgies per se (although many of my readers, being more experienced, felt no such qualms). But my point wasnotthat children’s liturgies arebad(see disclaimers in the previous post) but rather that there are (at least for my family)betteroptions.
For many years I had a love-hate relationship with the
movie Peter Pan.We grew up on the Mary
Martin film of the Broadway show (while the Disney version was familiar too, I
don’t think we owned it).The movie hews
fairly close to Barrie’s original text (which, like the dutiful homeschooler I
was, I had also read), including the ending—which I hated with the passion of a
thousand flaming suns.Peter Pan, come
back after many years’ absence, finds that Wendy’s daughter is ready for an
adventure and that Wendy, now “old, ever so much more than twenty,” has
forgotten how to fly.After some
back-and-forth, it is agreed that Wendy Jr. will gallivant off with Peter for a
limited period of time, just “to do his spring cleaning.”Wendy expresses a wistful wish that she could
go too.Peter (and it was Mary Martin’s
smirk that made the lines truly unbearable) replies: “No, Wendy.You’re too old now.”
I was still a kid, and it still stung.
Of course, James Barrie would probably say that it was
supposed to sting.His Peter Pan is a lovely adventure story,
but filled with winking irony intended for adult readers speaking to their
children.There is the occasional dash
of social criticism (the Darlings worry that their unconventional dog-nanny
Nana will lead to raised eyebrows), and plenty of wry commentary on the
differences between male and female perceptiveness, especially in affairs of the heart.
Thus we learn, for example, that Wendy’s mother
…
was a lovely lady, with a romantic mind and such a sweet mocking mouth. Her
romantic mind was like the tiny boxes, one within the other, that come from the
puzzling East, however many you discover there is always one more; and her
sweet mocking mouth had one kiss on it that Wendy could never get, though there
it was, perfectly conspicuous in the right-hand corner.(Ch.1)
It’s a kiss that Mr. Darling can’t get either (and he
is not aware of the innermost box, says Barrie); and Barrie adds that not even
Napoleon could have gotten that kiss.Who does get the kiss in the end?Why, Peter Pan of course.
That’s what is so frustrating about Peter.He’s not fair.
I am aware, of course, that I am speaking Hookishly
here.But Peter really is so much of a
brat that one is forced occasionally into feeling that even Hook
had a point.
To be fair to Peter, it must be admitted that the grownups
in Peter Pan have an inconvenient way of interfering in their children’s
lives.For example:
Mrs. Darling first heard of Peter when she was tidying
up her children’s minds. It is the nightly custom of every good mother after
her children are asleep to rummage in their minds and put things straight for
next morning, repacking into their proper places the many articles that have
wandered during the day. If you could keep awake (but of course you can’t) you
would see your own mother doing this, and you would find it very interesting to
watch her. It is quite like tidying up drawers. You would see her on her knees,
I expect, lingering humorously over some of your contents, wondering where on
earth you had picked this thing up, making discoveries sweet and not so sweet,
pressing this to her cheek as if it were as nice as a kitten, and hurriedly
stowing that out of sight. When you wake in the morning, the naughtiness and
evil passions with which you went to bed have been folded up small and placed
at the bottom of your mind and on the top, beautifully aired, are spread out
your prettier thoughts, ready for you to put on.(Ch.1)
Peter, if he is not exactly an evil passion, is certainly a naughty one. But so irresistible is he that, troublemaker though
he is, Mrs. Darling forgives him.Indeed,
even after he has stolen away her children, she cannot bring herself
to say a word against him.
“That fiend!” Mr. Darling would cry, and Nana’s bark
was the echo of it, but Mrs. Darling never upbraided Peter; there was something
in the right-hand corner of her mouth that wanted her not to call Peter names.
Something in the right hand corner of her mouth,
perhaps, that wasn’t quite grown up.
***
Not long ago I watched Hook for the first time, and recently I rewatched it.For those who haven’t seen the movie (which I
suppose is getting a little old now, as grownup things are wont to do): it is a
cheerful, scary (for children at least) flick with a lot of “heart” and the occasional
unfortunate moments of vulgarity and salaciousness that are for some reason obscure to me considered de rigor in comedy.The conceit is that Peter Pan—now “Peter Banning,” played with
delightful goofiness by Robin Williams—has indeed grown up, and not only grown up
but forgotten his past, and not only forgotten his past but become a
small-souled lawyer who is so absorbed by his work that his relationship with
his wife and two children suffers.Worse
yet, he is afraid of heights (as his scornful and resentful son discovers on a
transatlantic jaunt).Worst of all, as
his aged “granny” Wendy discerns, he has become “a pirate.”
In the immediate context, Wendy is referring to Peter’s
activities with his firm: he is the tough negotiator who swoops in and defeats
the small companies struggling against absorption by their larger
competitors.But the judgment has further
implications.Peter is physically cowardly,
self-absorbed, and incapable of recognizing the reality of anything remotely
fanciful or imaginative.Little
children, one suspects, are not fond of him—certainly he has alienated his son
Jack, though his younger child Maggie remains loyal.He does not tolerate fooling or teasing or play.And he does not recognize the reality
of time.Though living in a world bound
and governed by time—unlike the world he inhabited for ages as a child—he acts
as if its rules do not apply to him.He
can delay attendance at a baseball game or while away the hours of a rare vacation on
his phone—indeed, can while away the years of his children’s childhood—without repercussions.He is master of his time.At least, he acts as if he thinks this
way.Probably, he doesn’t think about it
at all.
Interestingly, all these qualities—the anti-time
attitude, the intolerance of jokes, the antipathy of children, the lack of
imagination, the egotism, and the cowardice—are qualities of Capt. Jas. Hook.
Of which, and of what Barrie might think of all this,
more anon.
A recently witnessed Facebook exchange forced me to confront a deep, dark truth about myself: I hate—no, nothate; I loathe, despise, abhominate, and abhor children's liturgies. The feeling was a little overblown, and prompted some self-examination. What exactly was it that gave me such a visceral negative reaction to something that many parents embrace with waves of relief?
I think I know now. None of these are arguments that your children’s liturgy that your children go to in your parish is anything but the bee’s knees. They are simply my attempt to articulate to myself why the idea of any child of mine ever attending one makes me shudder like a lizard just ran up my leg when I was almost asleep (true story).
I cannot remember to which Facebook friend I owe my introduction to Kirstin Valdez Quade’s reimagining of St. Christina the Astonishing. Published in The New Yorker, Quade’s longform story incorporates text from Christina’s thirteenth-century vita into a first-person narrative from the mouth of one of Christina’s sisters, covering many of the events recorded of Christina: her miraculous levitation; her report of having visited purgatory; her eccentric avoidance of people who carried the stench of sin; her extreme penances; the accusations of madness and possession; and, ultimately, her entrance of a convent.
Quade takes the outlines of Christina’s story and her penchant for “astonishing” behavior and weaves a disturbing tale. I was reminded of The Toast’s epic transformation of “The Velveteen Rabbit” into a horror short—except that while The Toast keeps tongue firmly implanted in cheek, Quade appears to have intended her smackdown of Christina seriously.
John Milton’s pair of longish poems, L’Allegro
and Il Penseroso,
are a beautiful depiction of mood.The
first joyful and the second meditative, sad, and even grim, they show the world—in
large part, the world of nature—through the lens of two mental states which in
their extremity might almost be called proto-Romantic.They are also the source of a few phrases
that the wide reader might recognize: “to trip the light fantastic” derives
from the following pair of lines:
Come
and trip it as you go,
On
the light fantastick toe …
… which hail, not surprisingly, from L’Allegro.
For many years I had known of the poems, but not known
much about their reception or what effect they had on subsequent artists—until one
afternoon when, working on one writing project or another, the baroque music
blaring from my husband’s speaker system set a synapse firing in my brain.What was
that line? I asked myself.Fortunately, in songs lines are generally repeated; the tenor gave it
again:
Come and trip it as you go,
On the light fantastick toe …
“What is this?!!” I demanded out loud.
It was George Frideric Handel.Yes, that
Handel, whose other accomplishments apparently include the composition of a “pastoral
ode” entitled L’Allegro, il Penseroso ed
il Moderato and, you guessed it, inspired by Milton’s poems.I highly recommend the piece.You can hear the light fantastic toe around 10:50. (Full libretto here.)
Handel: L’Allegro, il
Penseroso ed il Moderato, Gardiner,
At
the urging of one of Handel’s librettists, Charles Jennens, Milton’s two poems,
L’Allegro and il Penseroso, were arranged by James Harris, interleaving them to
create dramatic tension between the personified characters of Milton’s poems (L’Allegro
or the “Joyful man” and il Penseroso or the “Contemplative man”). The first two
movements consist of this dramatic dialog between Milton’s poems. In an attempt
to unite the two poems into a singular “moral design”, at Handel’s request, Jennens
added a new poem, “il Moderato”, to create a third movement. The popular
concluding aria and chorus, “As Steals the Morn” is adapted from Shakespeare’s Tempest, V.i.65–68.
Oh, Handel.How
very Aristotelian of you, to demand the addition of a moderate man!Poor Milton is probably turning over in his
grave, much like the librettist for Messiah,
who (the story is possibly apocryphal, but too good not to repeat) complained
that Handel had destroyed the poetry with his music.
When I wrote my last post here some days ago, I did not expect it to be particularly controversial. The point seemed straightforward: that it was healthy for people to take personal responsibility for actions done in their free time; specifically, that even seemingly neutral things like entertainment promote increased virtue or stagnation (and, as C.S. Lewis reminds us through the mouth of Screwtape, in the spiritual life stagnation meansgoing downhill).
But the popularity ofGame of Thronesis such that its trees rather overshadowed the aforementioned forest; and the post, though not designed to cast shade (pun intended) on fans of the show (who number such respectable Catholics as Ross Douthat), did have the aura of a minor condemnation.
Even among secular media watchers, HBO’s Game of Thrones has
its mild detractors. Among Catholics, debate about the ethics of—and
the ethics of watching—the show can get heated. I’ve seen multiple
social media dumps on articles about the series: articles critiquing its
violence, articles praising its realism, articles slamming its sixth
commandment shenanigans, articles noting the limited virtue of various
characters.
What I haven’t seen is the series itself; and I don’t plan to see
it. I don’t plan to see it because, of all the articles I’ve read on Game of Thrones,
not one has made a case for the series that convinces me it’s worth my
time’s investment. I’m not saying a convincing case for the series couldn’t be made. But the arguments I’ve read for GoT so far have been unconvincing: for none of them ask the right question.
I
have a reading recommendation for feminists (and non-feminists as well,
actually): Andrew Lang.
Lang,
a Victorian-era writer learned in folklore and mythology, put his academic
knowledge to commercial use when he published The Blue Fairy Book (1889), a collection of stories which spawned a series of
twenty-five books, mostly named in the same style (the last “color” book, The Lilac Fairy Book, was published in
1910, and the final book of all, The
Strange Story Book, in 1913.)
Our
regional library owned most of the series; and I devoured them in middle school
and high school.Weaned (I exaggerate
only slightly) on Tolkien and Lewis, I graduated
… some would say
regressed; but where was there to go but down?
…
to fairy tales.The Lang books were a
long and largely rewarding (if occasionally repetitive) sop to my
fantasy-starved mind.And it was not an
unhealthy sop: more of a porridge, really: basic, but fundamentally nourishing.
Oddly
enough, the stories were also what a person sensitive to political correctness
might call “gender neutral.”Oh, not
always in the particular stories, any given one of which might have featured a
long-suffering damosel in distress.But
it was interesting how often meek male
characters were the butt of stepfamilial abuse, or the committers of
Pandora-like errors, and often a female character showed up everyone around
with her courage, wit, and resourcefulness.The fairy tale genre, if it is offensive to either sex, is, like the
melancholy Jacques, an equal-opportunity offender.
Thus,
when I encountered a certain
video ad for Goodnight Stories for Rebel
Girls, I found myself muttering “Gag me with a spoon.”To be fair: the authors express laudable
intentions.In answer to the query “Why
a Book for Girls?” they explain:
Because we are girls.
Our entrepreneurial journey made us understand how important it is for girls to
grow up surrounded by female role models. It helps them to be more confident
and set bigger goals. We realized that 95% of the books and TV shows we grew up
with, lacked girls in prominent positions. We did some research and discovered
that this didn't change much over the past 20 years, so we decided to do
something about it.
And
indeed, the collection of stories of real women, from Elizabeth I to Serena
Williams, looks promising (though I haven’t read it).Nor will I attempt to take issue with the
authors’ judgment that there is a high proportion of shows that fail to show
women at their best.Nevertheless, I
took umbrage at the video, for two reasons.
The
first is simply that, as suggested above, the video’s rhetoric is based on a
flawed understanding of the fairy tale genre, an understanding that would have
been corrected by a knowledge of (for example) Lang’s work.The video begins with a cartoon man, blond,
buff, and handsome in a stereotypically over-muscular Hollywood style, who is
introduced as the victim of his stepbrother’s beatings and general
highhandedness.There is a ball, a
princess, a rescue of this Cinderfella, and then—the warm and comforting narrator
is swallowed by a black screen, supplanted by stark white text. We
wouldn’t read this to our sons.Why read
it to our daughters?
I
was yelling “stop” a long time before that, right at the part where Cinderfella
was submitting meekly to his stepbrother’s maltreatment.Because—let’s be honest—while both boys and
girls can be sensitive and submissive, and both boys and girls can be feisty,
boys tend to be more punchy than girls.For every Anne Shirley who (admirably) breaks her slate over the bully
Gilbert Blythe’s head, there are perhaps a dozen girls who would simply have
burst into tears at his teasing.With
boys, the ratio is reversed.This
Cinderfella parody had a plausibility issue from the beginning.You can tell a Cinderella-esque tale about a
male character—cf. Andrew Lang’s collections, or google any of the following: “Iron
Hans,” “Puss in Boots,” “The Glass Hill,” “Billy Beg and His Bull.”But that particular Cinderfella was inconceivable.A jacked, jut-jawed lad who weighs double
what his brothers do and could easily bench press them in one hand each,
cowering under the onslaught of brooms … The video’s creators have weighted the dice
from the beginning, making the whole story feel
absurd.
Of
course, the tale is a clear parody not just of any Cinderella story, but of
what had become, alas, our culture’s most prominent version thereof: the
admittedly somewhat absurd animated film that hales from the studios of a man
whose name begins with “W” and “D” and rhymes with Dalt Wisney.
A
good deal of the ridiculousness that the video’s creators see in the tale,
then, has to do with the particular version of it they have chosen to ridicule—a
version in which Cinderella is, in fact, more helpless and less resourceful
than she happens to be even in Perrault.Probably if the video’s creators had been exposed to anything more substantial
(dare I say, “wholesome”?) than American film growing up, they would not have
picked fairy tales for their whipping boy.
This
sort of cultural ignorance, of course, is not their fault.But there are other assumptions in the video
that troubled me.Most basic of all, the
presentation of the problem-solving book suggests that their notion of “Women at Their Best” may differ from mine.Indeed, it suggests a difference in our
notions of “People at Their Best.”
The
collection’s title, Goodnight Stories for
Rebel Girls, may serve for a launching point.The idea communicated is surely that women
(and girls) who lead noteworthy and/or admirable lives can only do so if they
are willing to stand out, whether that means bucking societal notions of what
girls “should” do, or simply working really hard to develop their talents and
interests.Put in these terms, there is
nothing wrong with the idea: choose almost any female saint of the Catholic
Church, from Cecelia
to Clotilde to Hildegard of Bingen
to Margaret
Clitherow to Mother Teresa to Giana Molla and
you will confront a woman who stood out,
in many cases defying her society.Heroic virtue of the obvious sort (which is what it nearly always takes
to be canonized as a saint) entails taking a stand when it’s tough.And the same, of course, can be said on the
male side: secular male figures and saints, like their female counterparts, are
canonized because they did extraordinary things, difficult things, things that
their society may not have supported, and of which it often disapproved.
Mind you, they are all
saints because they loved God.
But they’re canonized
saints because they demonstrated
this love in sometimes surprising
ways …
Granting
all that, take issue with the concept of rebel.We are Americans, whose country was founded
out of a rebellion.We love to imagine
ourselves the scrappy underdogs, the buckers of trends, etc.We may be the richest nation on earth, but we
love Jean Valjean.We tend to forget
that there is nothing inherently virtuous about being rebellious.It all depends on what the rebel stands for
and against.Queen Elizabeth was indeed
a bit of a rebel, but so was Bloody Mary Tudor; and depending on your
historical viewpoint, you may regard either or both as loathsome, as readily as
you regard one or the other as heroic.Jezebel was a bit of a “rebel,” and a wicked woman.
Lucrezia
Borgia.Wu Zetian.Bonnie Parker (of Bonnie and Clyde).A handful of female Nazis who worked as
guards in the concentration camps.A
handful of female serial killers.And of
course, this is just the women: history records the names of thousands more men
who were outstanding in their fields, but frankly nasty to live (or die?)
with.There’s nothing inherently great
about being a rebel.
Conversely,
notwithstanding my acknowledgement of heroic virtue, there is nothing unheroic
about meekness.And herein lies the real
crux of my uneasiness with the Rebel Girls project.I suspect that any version of the Cinderella story, Disney or Lang, male or
female, which seemed to praise meekness would have met with their scorn.Meekness is an underrated virtue.We tend to read it as weakness at best,
prissiness at worst.We cannot abide
Fanny Prince.We find it paradoxical
that “The meek shall inherit the earth.”
What
we forget is that meekness itself requires a great deal of strength.Turning the other cheek and forgiving those
who persecute us or even merely “trespass against us” is a terrible burden to
bear.“Lead us not into temptation!” we
pray.“Do not require us to be meek!”
The
great question, requiring considerable discernment, is when to rebel and when
to suffer.The recent Cinderella movie
directed by Kenneth Branagh, while in many ways excellent, could have tackled this question head-on but failed to do so,
though the key line, “Have courage and be kind,” at least attempted to address
the issue.Any “realistic” or live or
“grownup” adaptation of the move really does
have to deal with the question of why Cinderella accepts her abuse: it’s the
motive for doing so, not the fact that she does, which determines whether or
not she is worthy of emulation, and embodies the final paradox of virtue: the meek
rebel: the womanly woman who also outshines every man born.
It has become faintly fashionable to complain about the Christian art scene, and specificallythe Christianmusicscene.
I’ve made my share of complaints, and will plead guilty to possession
of a possibly snobbish suspicion of any artists marketing themselves as
“Christian” or “Catholic”. So when the band Scythian was noised about a few years back, I was dubious. Surely they were either not really Catholic, or not very good?
Well, my apologies to Alexander, Danylo, and Larissa Fedoryka; Nolan
Ladewski; and Fritz McGirr. You all make solid music. And I’d be hard
put to find a group of people that takes their faith more seriously.
One
of the reasons for my long love-affair with the Roman Canon is the fact that
every now and then a phrase I’ve heard a thousand times pops out with the
singularity of a first hearing.This
time was in the “Hanc igitur.”
Hanc
igitur oblationem servitutis nostræ, sed et cunctæ familiæ tuæ, quæsumus,
Domine, ut placatus accipias: diesque
nostros in tua pace disponas, atque ab æterna damnatione nos eripi, et in
electorum tuorum iubeas grege numerari.
“Therefore, Lord, we
pray: graciously accept this oblation of our service, that of Your whole
family; order our days in Your peace,
and command that we be delivered from eternal damnation and counted among the flock
of those You have chosen.”
An
interesting choice of words.I have
perhaps a too-Kantian (or is it Pelagian?) tendency to imagine that I am
responsible for the ordering of my days—and in a sense, I am.But here, as is so often the case at Mass, we
are reminded that the real ability and responsibility for any good human effort
lie with God; and so we ask God to order our days.
The
manner in which those days are ordered is beyond interesting; indeed, the
choice of words is positively curious.“Order
our days in Your peace,” says the official Novus Ordo translation.But what is God’s peace?And what does it mean for our days to be
contained in that peace, as if peace
were a bargain box or a chesterdrawers?
My
first association of the phrase hails from medieval history.“The peace of God” was the periodic fast (if
you like) from war and warlike recreations such as jousting; like a New England
blue law, “the peace of God” applied only on certain days and during particular
seasons—Sundays and Lent were typical.
My
second association of the phrase is its magisterial (in the nontechnical
sense!) usage in Chesterton’s The Man Who
Was Thursday, when the terrifying character Sunday reveals his true
identity as “the Peace of God” (and leaves the mystery of who he is still
mysterious!).
Though
the associations are accidental and less ancient than the text concerned, both
I think shed some light on its meaning.Both
link “the peace of God” to Sunday, to the Sabbath, specifically, as the day to
which God’s peace most properly belongs.The medieval peace, among other things, had the function of insuring
that God was properly worshipped on Sunday: if you’re not allowed to engage in
your knightly pursuits, the “I’m busy” excuse becomes less tempting.
Come to think of it,
perhaps some bishop should
revive “the peace of
God” and apply it to soccer?
Chesterton’s
character, in addition to calling to mind his namesake day of the week, is also
linked to the original day of rest taken by God as a culmination to His
creative activity.Sunday is the
ringleader of a group of benevolent spies, an anti-anarchist, a force
simultaneously of playful chaotic energy and absolute authority and control.You could hardly say that Sunday wields his power; he simply has it, and
others fall into line accordingly—out of fear, before they really know him, and
out of joy and the love of adventure once they do.The peace of God, in Chesterton’s reading, is
a remarkably active and in some sense a perilous matter, like skydiving with a tiller.And might not the same be said of the
Mass?(I once hear priest giving a talk
on the old Mass remark how larded it was throughout with humble pleas not to
strike down the celebrant for his audacity in making the sacrifice; and while I
had never quite thought of the Kyrie
in that light, the description fits.)
One
sense, then of “Your peace” might be simply the peace of Sunday, the Sabbath.The embedding of these words in the key
prayer of the Mass further suggests that perhaps this “peace” may be identified
with the celebration of the sacred liturgy itself.But there is another possibility—not an
alternate meaning, but an additional one; for “peace” in liturgical language
also carries with it a sense of final rest.RIP, says the tombstone—a terrifying image in popular culture, until one
realizes that it is a prayer: Requiescat
in pace; “Rest in peace.”And in the
Catholic mind, the rest is not the merely negative rest …
… from which we hope
that Carrie doesn’t rise
to wreak her revenge on
our hapless selves …
but
rather a positive affair, one of those delicate euphemisms by which we veil
mysteries too glorious to speak lightly of.For the Catholic, indeed, “Rest in peace” is a brief optative phrase
meant to bring to mind a larger picture:
Eternal rest grant unto
them, O Lord,
and let perpetual light
shine upon them.
…
Absolve, O Lord,
the souls of all the
faithful departed
from every bond of sin.
And by the help of Thy
grace
may they be enabled to
escape the avenging judgment.
And enjoy the bliss of
everlasting light.
…
May light eternal shine
upon them, O Lord,
with Thy Saints for
evermore:
for Thou art gracious.
…
May the Angels lead
thee into paradise:
may the Martyrs receive
thee at thy coming,
and lead thee into the
holy city of Jerusalem.
May the choir of Angels
receive thee,
and mayest thou have
eternal rest with Lazarus, who once was poor.
Put
simply, “Rest in peace” is another way of saying “Rest in Heaven.”And as “peace” stands in for Heaven here, I
would suggest too that in the Roman canon “peace” has the additional
meaning.“Order our days in your peace”
is perhaps first of all a request from the harried Christian that the world not
overcome him in daily life.The second
and richer meaning of the phrase seems to be a reminder that all our days and
our daily work should be ordered around the Mass: that the Mass, whether we
make it daily or weekly, is the pinnacle of that slice of time in which it
falls.And in this sense, the phrase is
once again not a command but a comfort: a reminder that the sacred in which we
intermittently participate can, if we permit it, permeate all of life,
converting chronos to kairos.In some
sense, sacred time contains secular time.The third and final meaning takes this sense to the next level.Participation in the Mass is not merely the
salvation of our sanity, nor a way of making daily life fancier and finer, or
even happier and holier (though it is all these things).Participation in the Mass is in fact
participation in the life of Heaven itself; and through the Mass, then, if our
days are ordered in it—defined by and around it, so that its laws and aspirations
and language become a lived second nature to us—though this Massedness of daily
life, daily life itself becomes a foretaste of Heaven; transpires, in some
mysterious sense, inside the life of Heaven.
“Therefore, Lord, we
pray: graciously accept this oblation of our service, that of Your whole
family; order our days in Your peace, and command that we be delivered from
eternal damnation and counted among the flock of those You have chosen.”